Nowadays, a trend called 'Relation-sipping' is very much discussed on social media. You may also have heard about it. This is a trend of Gen-Z i.e. the new generation, which gives importance to small moments in love and relationships instead of big showy things. 'Sipping' means drinking something slowly. Similarly, instead of flaunting relationships in big parties or on social media, this trend called 'relation-sipping' involves enjoying the simple and sweet moments of everyday life.

People who follow this trend find love in small things. Like instead of going to an expensive hotel on the weekend, sitting at home watching your partner's favorite movie or cooking food together. Instead of expensive jewellery, bring your partner's favorite dish without telling them or gift a small item related to an old memory. Instead of going on a date to post photos on Facebook or Instagram, live the moment just for yourself. Remembering your partner's little wishes, like how he or she likes his or her coffee.

Why is this becoming popular?

In today's times, it seems like everything is being done to 'show off on Instagram'. Because of this, the concern about lack of authenticity in relationships has increased. This is why youth now want authentic connection and honest love. Experts believe that big shows can sometimes create tension, but these small steps help in strengthening the relationship and understanding each other better. The mantra of relationship-sipping is that there is no need for a big platform to say “I care about you”, but a small sip of love is enough.

How to follow it?

Instead of making big plans, take out 15-20 minutes a day just for each other. After returning from work in the evening, sit together on the balcony and drink coffee or go for a walk after dinner. Stay away from the digital world. Staying away from phones or social media when you two are together is an important part of this trend. When your partner is talking, look into their eyes and listen instead of looking at the phone. This makes them feel “I am valued.”

Give importance to small memories. Remembering and fulfilling some small thing said by your partner is more valuable than any big gift. Bring their favorite fruit unexpectedly or write a small love note to them when they are stressed at work. Not only hanging out, but also doing common household chores together is a part of this trend. Cutting vegetables together, watering plants or arranging the house – all these conversations make the relationship even sweeter.