News India Live, Digital Desk: We all are running day and night in search of only one thing and that is ‘Happiness’. We think that if we get a new phone, we will be happy, if we get a promotion, we will enjoy it. But the thing to note is that even when we get all this, our happiness lasts only for a few moments. Why is this so? Have you ever wondered why we remain sad? Psychologists and great scholars believe that no one else is responsible for our ‘unhappiness’ but we ourselves. We unknowingly make 3 such mistakes every day which are snatching away our laughter. Come, let us sit like friends today and talk about which are those three bad habits which if you leave them today, you will start feeling relaxed from tomorrow itself. 1. Comparison with others: ‘Sharma ji ka beta’ syndrome is the biggest disease of all of us. “Hey, why is his car bigger than mine?”, “Why are there so many likes on his photo and less on mine?” The truth is bitter, but admit it – comparison kills happiness. When you compare your life with someone else’s social media reel, you stop seeing your own strengths. Remember, everyone’s story is different. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon, both shine at their own time. Focus on your race, not others.2. Jealousy in the mind (Jealousy) “How did he move ahead?” If this thought also comes to your mind, then believe me, the loss is not to the other person, but to you. Jealousy is like a coal which you pick up in your hand to throw it on someone else, but it is your own hand that gets burnt. People who are jealous after seeing the success of others or are angry inside, are never able to sleep peacefully. If someone has moved forward, congratulate him, see how light your heart will feel.3. Complaining about everything (Always Complaining) Are you also one of those people who get irritated immediately when there is less salt in the food, when the bus is late or when the weather is bad? People who always find “shortcomings” are never able to enjoy the “goodnesses”. This is called ‘Negative Mindset’. If you always look at what you don’t have, you won’t be able to enjoy what you have. Stop complaining and learn to be grateful. Real wealth lies in being happy with what someone has given you.